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This Week In Your Wallet – January 18, 2011

This week brought more stories on the imposition of bank fees (and from me, a new suggestion of how to deal with them), an interesting piece of research about how many of us (many!) have cheated financially on our spouses or partners, and a heads-up from the IRS about the fact that they may not be quite ready to deal with your return.

High Interest Checking or a Credit Union, Perhaps? Last week in this newsletter, I wrote about how more and different bank fees are headed your way. The Wall Street Journal echoed the sentiment on WHATDAY. Well, today, let’s talk about two ways you can fight back.

Attention All Itemizers. The tax changes from Congress came so late in the game this tax season, that the IRS needs til mid-to-late February to reprogram its processing systems. This only affects the 50 million or so filers who itemize, but if you’re one of them, it means you shouldn’t send your return in until the IRS is ready to go. If you’re expecting a refund, it’ll be delayed until afterwards. I’ll let you know when that happens. If you use Turbo Tax, the Intuit folks say you can go ahead and file whenever you’re ready – they’ll hold the return until the IRS gives the go-ahead.

Your Cheating Wallet. This week the folks at the National Endowment for Financial Education released an eye opening survey on financial infidelity. It took a deep dive into the 2/3 of couples who merge their money and unveiled a lot of secrets. Among them: 1/3 have committed some sort of financial deception (1/3 have also had a financial wrong committed against them). Topping the list of crimes-of-the-wallet? Hiding purchases, bills or actual cash. Lying about the debt they’re carrying. And lying about how much they earn. How big a problem is this? Big. Huge. Financial infidelity leads to financial arguments – and the more often you fight about money, the more likely you are to divorce. If you’re nodding along, as in “yup, I’ve done that,” here’s my suggestion: Give each other a little more freedom. Don’t mix all your money. You need to be able to buy a cup of coffee or a pair of shoes or an iPod without asking permission. Otherwise, the relationship generally feels a little too parental. Yours, mine and ours accounts work best.

Have a great week!

Jean
www.jeanchatzky.com

 

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